Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Im not sure what is it about me?

Sounds like jealously to me. And if strangers are making fun of you, they are idiots with nothing better to do, they need lives. You have a life, so don't worry about it.

Relationship with finance ?

In a relationship who agrees or disagree that finance should be together or separate. We were dating on n off for 2.5 yrs our money was together for about the past 6 months. About 3wks ago, after living together for 1mth, I had gone to the casino n spent $100 when i told her that I would spend $40. Bills were always paid n spending that's amount didn't hurt anything. This was the first time I spent any amount on anything for enjoyment. Before that's I asked her if she wanted to go (repeatedly),and she said no that I could go. After that I got home at midnight n got into an argument. After that things went down hill, I suggested to Jeep our finance separate n. Split all bills.she said no n she said she wont live like that. Since then I've moved out. Am I selfish to do so. I've dropped everything to b with her even giving up all my friends. It sounds stupid there's more, however I just want to hear people in this situation had done to figure a direction the same as me

What do I do after a dog attack?

I was walking my little 10lb dog down the sidewalk the other day. The owner of the house directly in front of the sidewalk has 2 pit-bulls that charged out of the door and ran up to me and my dog growling with teeth bared (I would say these dogs were 80lbs each). I lifted up my dog in an attempt to save him and the pit-bulls jumped on me trying to get at him and nipping at his hind quarters, they scratched me and left large bruises on me in the process. My sweater I was wearing was also ripped in the back where one of the dogs jumped on me. My dog seemed to be ok, although he was screaming in fear/pain as the pit-bulls tried to rip at him... making me nervous that they did do damage. The owner eventually wrestled them to the ground (he was bloody/bitten from trying to get them back). The police were called and a report was filed. Is there anything else I can do in this case? These dogs are dog-aggressive and a potential dancer to others.

My 10 Mo Old has started biting. What should I do?

I used a deep voice and said her name and it scared her so she would stop it. my one friend bit her son back once and he stopped. Not hard of course.

Weird mental problems?????????? Shrooms?

I haven't done shrooms myself, but I have a lot of friends who have. Most people who take shrooms have "flashbacks" every once in a while. Why? I don't know, that would be something to look into. Anyways, since you had a mostly bad trip consisting of (I'm assuming) bad thoughts, your flasbacks are gonna be mostly bad. My friend had a good trip on shrooms and one time she had a flashback of Homer Simpsons skipping down the street. I have heard that MDMA and other drugs sometimes causes flashbacks, too.

Are these dreams I should be worried about?

Hmmm good question. I think that you miss your old friend and that your somewhat anxious that he won't want anything to do with you because it's been so long. I dream about thinks that I think or worry about too. Try strickong up a casuall facebook conversation ask him what he's been up to lately. Goodluck :)

Recent breakup..really confused?

just ask him what he is looking for? and how he would feel about you hanging out with other guys. i don't see anything wrong with it as long as your not sleeping with a bunch of random guys, that might blow your chance with this guy. go with how you feel if it feels right then go with it, start a relationship with him. if he wants to just be friends and see where it goes then by gosh go out and have a good time. you never know when you will find mr right.

How do i prevent my two dogs from getting too wild?

So my parents have a 2 year old staffordshire terrier/ lab and she’s a sweet heart, but he can be wild and full of energy at times and we have to wait outside a pet store or dog park for her to settle down enough to where she’s not dragging us(she’ s got the strength of the terrier and looks of the lab). About a month ago, my mom decided our dog need a companion that could keep up with our dog so my mom went out and adopted a 12 week old border collie / lab puppy. We took our older dog with us to PetCo to meet the other dogs before we adopted one and she and this puppy got along from the moment they met however recently they have been wrestling each other a lot and biting each other. I know its all fun and they are just playing with each other and they let each other know when it’s too much, but they wrestle so much that afterwards they just become wild and full of energy. We are also training the puppy from being paper trained like his foster mom taught him to actually going outside in the yard and he’s doing well except he gets so wild sometimes he forgets and just goes in the house. Yesterday my puppy was so wild up that he bit me a couple a times, never enough to break skin, and my older dog followed suit by nipping at me like she wanted to play, The older dog has been like this before but not for a long time. My parents response to their bursts of energy is to get angry and yell at them and eventually everyone else in the household my dad is afraid my older dog is regressing and the puppy is picking up bad habits and are talking about separating them for a few weeks, like one in the crate for awhile and the other comes out to play and taking them outside one at a time. Anyone have any advice to A) settle my older dog down when outside, B)settle both dogs down or get them out of the phase of wild wrestling and C) prevent my older dogs regression. Please no advice about giving the dogs away or anything. It’s not going to happen!

Is my platy still pregnant?

My platy had four fry the 17th. But today she looks bigger than when she had them! I moved her back with my other fish thinking she was done. The small male platy is following her and she's nipping at him could she still be pregnant?

Which of the ff. expressions gives the distance between them?explain your answer.?

Most of these answers are EXTREMELY easy. Did you try to do any of the work yourself, or did you expect other people to do it for you?(By the way, teachers know all about the cheating that happens on the Internet.)

My puppy survived parvo. Now what do I do?

I have a 9 week old pup that had gotten parvo. We nipped it in the bud right away by giving him antibiotics, pedialyte, and force feeding him baby food with puppy vitamins. By the end of the night he went from being unresponsive, weak, and vomiting to eating his own food and playing fetch and running around. The next day (this morning) he seemed like his usual playful self and he doesn't seem sick anymore. Does this mean he is cured? If so How long do I wait to get him vaccinated?

Summer- now's my chance?

There's this guy I like. We're friends, I suppose not super close friends, but we do text a lot and hang at social events. We just finished our sophomore year, he had a girlfriend nearly the whole time, but they broke up a week or two before school ended. The thing is we both have summer houses on a lake, and in all irony, he actually lives just around the corner. Last time we were both up, he told me he was going to go shoot hoops at one of the rec. areas, and invited me along. I was only able to nip down for a few minutes, where we hugged but i had to dash. I really, really do like this guy, but I feel like he's too good for me. We're both straight A students but he's the totally glorious jock type. I really want this to happen. Please help

Looking for some Steampunk type Tshirts..?

I'm looking for some steampunk styled tshirts... to give you a hint around about what I am looking for: Something with maybe a graphic of a top hat or an old edison styled telephone, with the ear piece and mouth piece separate... any one know where I can find similar tshirts? thanks!

Need Dog training tips please.?

So we adopted an adorable little terrier mix about a month ago. For the most part every thing has been great but i could use a little advise. He is very intelligent and does some baside commands like sit, down, stay, come, shake and rollover. He does them excellently when i am in a quit room with him but when we are outside or there are new people around its like he has no attention span at all, he barley even responds to his name when he is distracted, also when he is out in the yard and i try to get him inside and say come he wont come he just starts running when i come near him, trying to play a game. how can i get him to be more obedient when he is outside, playing, or around new people- distracted. He also has some seperation anxiety. He really hates being lest alone and will bark for a while when we leave him in the kitchen alone. I have tried basically evrything- left radio on, left things with my scent for him and he gets plenty of excersise so thats not really the issue. He is fine when we leave him home alone, but when we leave him in a room alone and he knows were in the house he barks for a while, He is crate trained and i have tried leaving him in the crate when we leave the room but is doesnt seem to work. He is great around other dogs and people and only nips when i comb his tail or rear end. He is about 8 months old and i think he is a yorkipoo, or maybe a wirehaired dachsund mix or affen pincher or maybe a cair terrier mix, he is a little black scrappy 7 pound dog. He is also very skinny for his sixe and could put on a couple pounds. I give him two meals a day- solid gold food mixed with some organic wet food we make. I usuually only leave out the food for about an hour but he barley ever eats all of it. Is there a food that will help him put on weight, maybe white bread or rice or something? so basically 3 issues- 1) when distracted doesnt listen to commands like come and sit etc.. 2) Separation Anxiety when left in a room alone 3) Somewhat under weight. Thanks for your help

I need closure over the loss of my dog?

Trust me, your dog loves you. She may havenot even known herself where she was going, but she knows that if you knew where she was going you would hive her one last hug. She knows that and she loves you and understands you couldn't because you didn't know what was happening. Trust me, I know how it feels to lose your best friend. I had a Rottweiler that I had when I was 2 and had to put her down when I was 12, last summer. Now I'm 13 and understand you so much and how hard it is for you. Good luck.

My girlfriend is always talking about other guys?

Hi there, I am 16 and I love my girlfriend to bits, so much so that whenever there's even a whiff of another guy In the equation I get all jealous. For example, we'd be sitting in the park and a couple of men would walk past and she'd kind of stare and say "woah those guys have nice arms" or something, and then there is just constant posts and comments on facebook to and from her friends and photos she takes on holiday of all these boys and celebrities and models and boys she sees who are really "hot" and how "nice" there bodies are. Now I'm not a total weed, I have a relatively athletic body, but until now I thought my girlfriend didn't really care, and that it was just my personality that she likes. But now I see she's near fixated on body image and that. And it kind of upsets me, I was quite confident with my image until now. Is it normal to feel this way? Because I really don't want to be that "jealous" "clingy" boyfriend. Thankyou for any help.

Raccoon bite....please help?

The animal still might have rabbies, sometimes it's impossible to tell just by looking at them (especially in the early stages). And raccoons are in no way tame, though it is true for most things that they will come up to you if you sit still long enough, they are still wild and have a tendency to be nasty (as you have experienced, haha). It would be best to see a doctor just incase, if by some weird chance this raccoon was infected, the longer it takes to detect sometime the harder it is to treat.

My 60-something mother is extremely antisocial and odd. Help.?

She sounds as if she may be clinically depressed, or as you say in the early stages of some kind of dementia. However she is the so called "sandwich" generation, who have responsibilities for younger and also older family members. Do you think she may be feeling overwhelmed by all these imagined or real responsibilities ? That could be at the root of her withdrawal from the life of those around her,or it could be sheer laziness ? Is the housework getting done ? Is she keeping the place spotless or are things domestically going downhill ? You are right, the more she isolates herself the worse she will become. Can you get her to see a doctor and at least get routine bloods done to rule out anything physical.

How to print photos with my Dell Printer?

I have a Dell P513w all in one printer and it does photo prints too. I have finally gotten all my pictures ready on the computer to print but I have no idea where to put the photo paper in this printer as my other printers from the past have had separate trays. Please help I need to print these immediately!

I don't like our new dog... at all? opinions/advice?

well first of all i find it a titch immature to "not like a dog" ... you are 20 not 10 ... that puppy has done nothing to you and probably feels your dislike and how is that fair ... grow up ... next, your father was foolish to purchase this new puppy ... the most basic of research says you do not raise puppies together because they will bond with one another and have less use for the humans and their commands ... and this puppy may or may not be buddies with your current puppy ... which does suck for the current dog ... i selfishly got a puppy when i already had a dog and the old dog hated the new one ... ruined the last years of my first dogs life ... you said your older puppy is bullying the new one ... you should not allow that ... and this statement "I'm telling you with 100% seriousness that I know I'll never bond with this dog" means you seriously need to grow up ... this new puppy is a living, breathing animal, it is not its fault your father is clueless about dogs, and you are whining about not being able to bond with a puppy in two days ... not being able to love a puppy says more about the type of human being you are than anything negative about the puppy ... if you can not take the living conditions in your parents home then i suggest you get your adult butt off the sofa and move out ... take your precious 6.5 month old puppy and be done with it ... (who lives at home at the age of 20, 20 is an adult you know) ... reading this i would assume you are an only child with some self-absorbed, narcissistic tendencies to post all this over a puppy your family has had 2 days ...

Higher voltage = lower energy loss?

Power companies send electricity at extremely high voltages because lower current means less energy lost. But here's the thing I don't get about that. Let's say (100% hypothetical numbers here, don't fixate on that) you've got a 100 volt circuit at ten amps and ten ohms (V = I * R, 100 = 10 * 10). Now you step that up so it's 1000 volts, which decreases the amps to one (because 100 * 10 = 1000 * 1, same total energy output) and increases the ohms to 1000. Why doesn't the tenfold increase in resistance cause as much more energy loss than the reduction of current? What's the math behind this?

My parents won't admit I'm crazy?

First off, I know enough about myself and mental illnesses to know that I have a tendency towards depression. Ever since I started puberty, there have been entire months where all I could do was fixate upon something self destructive: starving myself, killing myself, hurting myself. Sometimes, however, I feel downright homicidal, though lucky for everyone else, I don't act on this particular impulse. And no one has ever noticed. My parents are either just oblivious or are in denial about it. And now, as I'm being forced to sign the papers to go to a boarding school I never liked, they refuse to even discuss the possibility that I might have psychological issues. This is partly because of my mother's position as chief medical officer at a psychiatric institution and partly because of her recent diagnosis with severe adjustment disorder and her family history with mental illness. And though I have talked to my father about it, and he offered to take me to counseling, he never went through with it. I know that given enough stress, I sometimes have nervous breakdowns. What do I need to do to get some help?

How to create a network on Mac OS X?

I have a wpa network on my Mac. In order to play online you have to have a wep network. So how do i make a separate network for my dsi to connect to, while my computer still connects to the wpa network? (Tell me how to do it with a Mac OS X). Thank you.

Is this unfair for the girl ?

The only part of any of that, that could be considered wrong or selfish is the fact your asking everyone but HER! The rest is all quite sweet. Although you really do need to get a real job before you start thinking about marriage, and a family. Internships are all well and good but they do not pay. Why don't you ask her if she's interested in "courting" you?

What fish are good in a 2.5 gallon tank?

I have a goldfish in it right now. I will put him back in his tank after he is healed. (his fins are gone because my other fish have been fin nipping him) I'm thinking about a betta. Any others? So far on my list I have a pair of guppies or 4 neons (or very small tetra)

Why do people demonize me for loving my country? America?

Ok so apparently is bad to love the land i live on? now im not a wears flag shirts and hates other country's American. im just a american I love my country nothing will change that. more to the point other people always hate on me for the fact i love my country. do i love our government no do i approve of this war no. do i love my country yes. is it other country's just focus on all the bad in us and none of the good we done? i mean every damn country has had crime and war. our people have more freedoms then any other country true we are not 100% free but its necessary for civilized society. It would just be anarchy without laws to keep us in check. we help other country's in crisis and feed the starving in other 3rd world country's what if after the earthquakes in Haiti we just said **** it there on there own? what if we told japan to **** them self's? what if we didn't help stop Hitler. the point is we did help and we won. im not saying America is perfect far from it . but neither is Russia the British rule or china japan Poland etc . they done some good and bad. But it seams like people including Americans are fixating on all the bad thing's we did. that's our government. not us the government dose Not! represent the real American people.im sure i will get some people that love to rant on about how they hate about America. what ever i don't care about there opinions anyway i want nice civilized response not just hateful words.

Is breakfast really necessary?

20/F...I never used to eat breakfast. I would only eat lunch and dinner. About a year and a half ago, I began to eat breakfast and think that is when my binging issue came into play. I think eating 3 times a day vs. twice a day is making me too fixated on food. Has anyone else had this problem?

My horse has a nipping problem?

Ah, my guy can be like that. With horses who get lippy, since it can transition to them biting, I don't allow them to lip. Give him a "love tap" on the nose with your hand. Won't hurt him, it'll just snap them out of it and they'll be like "whoa I did something wrong! Better not do that again!" But be consistent because they don't learn from the first time :)

What is the best fish to put in with 3 red clawed crabs?

I'm scared the crabs will nip or kill the fish. I also put in some water conditioner because i use regular water and this conditioner has salt in it. I have a 10 gallon tank about half way full and access to land for the crabs through a tall plant, i can put more water in for the fish and i have a heater, thermometer, and good filter. (:

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Whats the safest way to get a dog to stop fighting?

my basset hound and my lab "ARGUE" not a lot but sometimes they do start a fight. i heard pouring cold water on them helps? but i want a quick method to prevent injuries. i am sick of seperating them cause i get nipped.

Is sanity statistical?

It is not easy to become insane. Everything happens for some reason. We reap what we sow. I mean Insanity thus cannot be reaped without any background event. Unless one deliberately or intensionally disturbs or troubles the mind, the mind will be normally stable.

I think i have a separated rib?

ok, last year i was a tad drunk, and had the stupid idea to attempt a back flip off a trampoline, as you can guess i failed badly, i landed with my back on the metal edge of the trampoline and the fell off again onto a ceramic plant pot,. i went to the doctor he said it's most definitively a broken rib, but apparently he couldn't do much because my rib cage needs to move in order to breath, he assured me it will heal in around 2 months if i take it easy. a year later it still aches, it pops when i bend to the side and my girlfriend says there is a definite difference between both sides. so what i'm wondering is, is it possible to separate a rib from the spine and if so what will fix it? also if it's impossible to separate a rib from the spine what else could it be? cheers

I don't like our new dog... at all? opinions/advice?

Give her a little time she will win her over....Were you rejected when you came in the world...Give her a chance

Why do men become obsessed with broken women?

Why do some men think they can fix these women? Why do they become so fixated and sucked in that they forget everything else that is good in their life? Yet they realise it's bad, but then the person comes back and once again they are sucked back in.

Is this unfair for the girl ?

It is not a selfish thing, but as you quoted in additional details, have a discussion with the girl and ascertain her views. Like you said she has the ultimate say in the matter.

My 12 year old terrier mix dog has been nipping and just bit a neighbor girl. What do I do?

Our dog is 12 years old and we can see that her anxiety around childern is increasing (Growling,hiding, pacing, panting). We have small children in our home and lots of neighbors that come and go. Last week an older child (10) ran past her in the house, startled my dog and got nipped (no mark), then tonight another little girl reached in the door when our dog was barking and got bit (small pen dot puncture). I have a call out to see if a family member can take our dog because she is very familiar with her and lives on a farm with no children, but I love my dog so much I feel conflicted. Is it really time to remove her from my home?

My pet mouse wont stop biting me, and he is drawing blood.?

My pet mouse will not stop biting me, at first he was just nipping, but then he really bit me and drew a little blood, and after that he bit me one more time and it drew a lot of blood. I'm fine, and the bits are not infected. I got him and another mouse almost three weeks ago. The other one is nice and so sweet, they were in a cage together but the mean one wouldn't stop biting him, so I had to separate them because the nice one was getting scabs on his back. They are both male, and both have red eyes. the mean one is brown and the other is white. And there is one more thing, they came from two separate cages. I know the size of the cage does not matter because I left the white one in a big cage and left the brown one in the smaller one they were first in together. And after I let them cool off for about four days I put the brown one in with the other and his started acting ok, then about a half hour later he went back to biting. I am trying very hard to handle the brown one , but he constantly bites and gets irritated easily. They have plenty of food and plenty of space. They even get some fruit every day, they have it good. I even let them interact out of the cages, i've read everything I could find online, I'm stumped.

I don't like our new dog... at all? opinions/advice?

The poor little dog! Give her a chance! Your other dog will love having a companion too. I understand that your dog is your special buddy, especially if she's helped you through depression. But this new little pup will bring you lots of joy too. She needs love and i think it's strange you are saying point blank that you'll never bond with her. Sounds more like you don't want to. Are you worried that loving this puppy will diminish your bond with your original pup? It won't. If this puppy isn't going to be loved then please rehome her. It will be hearbreaking for her to see your other dog being loved and not her. She's a baby for goodness sake. Not some asshole cousin that's come to stay that you have nothing in common with.

Do you think oldglory.com is a reliable site?

I want to buy classic rock band t-shirts online. If I order them from amazon.com, I'll have to pay separate shipping for everything. Is www.oldglory.com a reliable website to order from? If it's not, does anyone have any other suggestions? Thanks.

What kind of games can I do with my guinea pig to get him more used to me?

honestly the best thing you can do is cuddle him lots spend about 2 hours a day with himn just sat on your lap infront of the telly or something feed him little bits of cabbage or parsley while hes with you (BUT NOT TO MUCH) this works so much better than any games you can do. it worked with my two girls :)

I don't like our new dog... at all? opinions/advice?

just watch them while they play and make sure to stop the older one from bullying calm but firm encouragement

Ways to find a home for dogs?

Two little dogs jumped into our truck wanting us to take them Home, but we can't find their Home. I have put ads up on Craigslist and on a couple of other local sites on the internet, and we've put up signs. We also had the pound check them to see if they're chipped, and they're not. We put signs up around the neighborhood. It's been over a week and nobody has come forward to claim them. We don't want to take them to the pound where they'll be separated and probably euthanized. I can't find a no-kill shelter anywhere close. We cannot keep them. There are so many dogs (and cats) up for adoption. How can I give these two good dogs a better chance at finding a forever home with a good owner? (Short of claiming on the evening news that we found them in a dumpster or something else dramatic and untrue!) How can we find them a good home (together) before we get any more attached to them?

My GSD nips only me! HELP!?

My puppy is currently teething now too and I had the same problem. I found that the best way to stop her was to firmly say "NO" every time she did and spritz her with water. Eventually just saying "NO" stopped her in her tracks. There are also plenty of chew toys specifically made for teething puppies, and having them around the house also helps. It's only been a week but she now only nips when she can't find her chew toys, and usually only once to get my attention.

Weird hallucinations I think?

So recently I've been experiencing some bizzare things. I've been having pretty frequent limb/ muscle twitches that have started to die down in frequency but are still there. I've started to see little sparks of light and dark circles in my prehiphrial vision. Not only that, I've been hearing little weird noises - but I can't tell if they are real noises that I am distorting because I think they could be hallucinations, or just mild hallucinations. The distorting part makes sense seeing as Im a hypochondriac and Im currently fixating on psychosis symptoms. For example- I heard a long, quiet scream, that faded off, and I realized it could have been either my mind hallucinating, my mind distorting a real sound, or just a very bizarre ambient sound. Also, I've been playing piano for 7 years or so and I just recently began composing what my body truly wants. This may sound stupid and all but I just sit down and it just comes to me, yet this music is sad, deep striking music (in the lower octive if you play piano), that's fast paced and similar to the last 50 seconds of "fantasie impromptu" anywho, I also just began to notice when I play piano, using the tv for light when it's dark outside, I begin to see the paper (in my perhiprial vision) start to wave, or ripple, but this is very minor, and it only ripples or waves slightly. Any suggestions? Oh yea, I think it's fair to note I've been smoking pot every since summer began. Also, also (?) its again fair to note that my muscle twitches have gone down when I stopped smoking this crappy weed. Also(x3), don't try and give a real answer if you have no idea what your talking about, and dont make this into a "pots bad" speech. I'm 16 and make good grades in AP clases for gods sake.

Are all cats obsessed with the smell of coffee?

yes all cats are obsessed, one time i was drinking coffee and my 2 cats smelt it and started sipping from my cup and then they realised it was too hot so they quickly ran to their water bowel and quenched their first so cute

Worried about the dogs when baby arrives?

My boyfriend and I are expecting a baby in September. He has two dogs I was never fond of (a 5 year old german shepard mix and a 2 year old miniature pinscher) The big dog is very territorial and has separation anxiety with my boyfriend. She barks at anyone that walks by the house (We were most recently at a family reunion and had her outside and she was barking at everyone and even tried to nip at a little kid!) Plus she gets on the furniture. The little dog thinks she is a princess and barks at everything and thinks its her right to be in someones lap all the time and she still pottys in the house! Both get in the trash too! I do not want these dogs around the baby, but he thinks they are angels. I currently do not live with my boyfriend but he wants us to all live together. I dont want to give him the ultimatum of "its me or the dogs" but I am not going to have my child around those dogs...and his parents dogs are just as bad if not worse. What to do or say to him.

How was class structure in medieval society different from class structure today?

e.g, Ive already noted that classes today are more "blurred" and less fixated. but what else is different about classes?

What obligations do Buddhists have that separate them from Atheist?

I'll admit that I don't know much about Buddhism so this may be a stupid question to some if not most people. It just bothers me that the religion that is least controversial is not practiced as much. By definition an atheist is someone who does not believe in any gods, is this the only thing different from being Buddhist?

How come I get so shy about this?!?

People can get odd fixations about anything. You could try some kind of therapy to get over yours, like cognitive behavioural therapy (cbt) or hypnotism. Make sure you get a qualified therapist, though. You could start by seeing your doctor, because they might be able to recommend someone. Dont worry, though, there will be a reason for it, and it can be sorted out. Possibly at some time in your life something traumatic happened when you were eating and somehow the anxiety and the food became linked in your mind. Dont be embarrassed, and do seek help, because there is bound to be something that can be done.

Questions about life in general that people don't discuss enough.?

I would say finish college only because it will help to make a living. The world revolves around money. And we're not really supposed to live with the same technology for the rest of our existence because we have the brain power to make and use tools. I definitely agree that it makes some of our biological functions obsolete, though. As for living away from the social norm, discovering the deeper meanings of life, I'm with you there. The world is too precise and too planned out for anything interesting to happen on a daily basis.

How do I find a half sibling. I know the year she was born, and state, and my father's name. Nothing else...?

I know I have a half sibling, but we were separated, and I have never had contact with her. I know she was born in California in 1968, and we share a father. Nothing else. Is there a legitimate way to find her?

Could I have been sexually abused as a child?

I guess it depends on you. You should speak this out to a parent a best friend or some one you trust. If someone is troubling you you should go and tell it to your parent or some one you feel comfortable with. It could be a bit serious if someone has tried with you anything, I guess after your sisters boyfriends issue you should have told your parents about it or your sister. If you feel you have been abused you seriously need to tell it somebody you feel good talking with. If you thought that your cousin was abused you should have tried to stay away from her. Please mention what innapropriate stuff youll did while playing that game. If you cant mention me you can mention it to someone you feel good talking with. If you have any problems please ask me by emailing it to me. I would love to help you out.

Why are my nails breaking so easily and so thin?

I can barely go a week without my nail's top layer separating up or breaking. They aren't even long. I'm 19, a girl, and it's annoying.

Help with dog training?

Huge problem! We have a 3yo Bichon Frise, sweetest dog in the world to us and our kids. But very territorial. He is fine out in public with other people and dogs, but whenever anyone comes to our door he goes ballistic. This is OK with me (he is a perfect watchdog) except that he got out today when we opened the door just a crack and nipped at my daughter's friend on the porch. I need to IMMEDIATELY train him with some sort of "stand down - it's OK" command, and have no idea at his age where or how to start. Please help, someone who knows dog behavior. We must do this on our own, since I would like for us in the family to be the only ones who can issue the stand down command.

Un-Socialized dog - Training?

You were bitten several times by this dog and YOU feel bad that you don't want to spend time there?!!! You need to tell these people what happened (if they don't already know). They need to bring the dog to a vet to make sure the dog doesn't have anything physically wrong with it and to discuss its behavioral problems. The vet can recommend what steps to take next and have their dog trained. At the very least have it muzzled before it bites someone VERY seriously and they have the dog taken away from them (maybe that what they really want!) Its not your job to get your friends dog to like you, the dog has much bigger problems then that. I wouldn't bring any animal of mine to their house either. And the dog has also bitten a 4yr. old, their sisters and them? What the heck are they waiting for???

Monday, July 18, 2011

Why do they look at me and shout his name?

I always walk past my ex boyfriend at least once a day at school, but whenever I do, all his friends shout his name so that he sees me and he stares at me and they all watch me walk past. It freaks me out because their always staring at me if I'm anywhere near them. His best friend also has his eyes fixated on me wherever I go. He gives me a weird look and try's to hear what I'm talking about with my friends. What could this mean?

Separate or joint acct?

My Gf n I been dating for 2.5 yrs. Six mths ago we decide to have a joint acct but living separate (i worked two hrs away) n looking toward the future n moving in soon. So every paycheck I would give her for bill,saving, n etc. I would only take what I need to live where I was at, very little. About a mths ago we move in things were good. She knows I enjoy going to okay Texas holdem as entertainment. One night (haven't played) I asked her to go n played.she didn't want to go n said if u want go without me. After asking n confirming several time I dropped her off n told her i was playing low limit 40 bucks,then left. Got there no low limit table only 100 n up....didn't want to wait seat open sat 100 table played tlfor 2 he's lost left got home midnight. She ask how much I lost, told her 100 bucks she blew up n told me could if bought her flowers, perfume etc......... I simply said I ask u u said yes so I left ..she said u were to use 40 not 100 I said no low only high limit table b okay.didn't think it was a big deal...I said I give u all my checks I don't take a single penny ..it was entertainment .so for several day we didn't speak. berfore I could even suggested we have a joint n separate acct. she said I wanted to surprise you I have some money saved. I ask where is it? Its not in the acct. She said it in a safety box. Then I suggested the acct. She blew up n said no. She not living with separate acct one acct only. but the box is under her name only. So then after moving in for one mths I moved out cuz we couldn't agree.......us this selfish of me n I'm being unreasonable. By the way I didn't take any of the saving she saved ...

Is it possible that my dog is mistaking me for my identical twin?

While I'm on deployment, my best friend back home is babysitting my dog for me. He's about 11 1/2 months old now. I knew it would be sort of rough on the dog but after this deployment, I'll get him back and no more deployments for me. So question being, my twin brother stops in about every other weekend or so and my buddy says my dog just cries and cries and begs for my brothers attention. Then after he leaves, my dog will continue to cry for the next day or so. He also is having problems being in the crate. Won't stop whining but he was never like that with me. (I adopted him when he was roughly 8/9 weeks old and had him up until early May) Is it possible he's confusing him for me? I thought dogs recognized humans by smell? My buddy also has a dog and will separating them for a few months after 8 months affect both dogs? That will only be temporary after my return cause I don't have service time left. Also, my brother does show my dog love and treats him as if he were me because of the crying. Hoping this all made sense

My daughters won't talk to me and they're very mad?

I know exactly why they are is acting this way, it's because I am giving away our dog Millie. My daughter Sarah is 10 years old and my daughter Tatum is 10 year old too ( they are twins ). Well we got this Dalmatian puppy for their birthday last month, my husband insisted we get them a puppy so we did and we payed 600 dollars for the dog. Ever since then this house has been turned upside down and I can't take it anymore the dog pees and poops everywhere inside. Millie chews the furniture and my clothes and shoes and everything! The girls take care of her very well but this dog is just out of control. She jumps every, she run around on the furniture, she digs up the flower beds, she always so excited and jumps on me and the girls. Millie also will nip at you and sometimes she gets so excited she pees and scratches us on the legs.She howls all night and when we take her out for a walk she pulls hard and her tail wags so fast it hurts! She also get bored all the time, we buy her tons of toys she plays with them for awhile then never play with them again. I myself feed he properly, walk her three times a day,I let her run free in the yard twice, the girls play with her, we potty trained her when she was a little puppy. She completely insane and goes crazy she bark so loud too. I told the girls I am giving her away because I am and they both cried and threw a tantrum. They screamed at me and yelled " I HATE YOU!" my husband didn't do anything they refuse to talk to me and locked Millie in their room. I explained to them why we have to give Millie away and they still refuse to talk to me. What I am doing is right and there is no doubt about it, this dog idea was stupid and it will never work Millie is to crazy and she can't learn anything she a stupid dog and I am giving her away and maybe putting her down asleep. I haven't told the girls that I might put the dog down. I tried punsihments for the girls but they don't care. Any advice on how I can make them cool down and talk to me again? Help please husband is mad to.

My fiance is fixated on friends?

I think you're both too immature to get married if you're going to argue about something that stupid.

HELP: Why am I so fixated on looks?!?

That's natural,everyone is attracted,one way or another, to ''good-looking'' things,even if that's just someone of the opposite sex.Think about how normal boys are thinking,that's exactly what they do most of the time!Don't feel bad about it,this defines who you are as a person and believe me you are not as shallow as you think you are,because almost every girl thinks that way even if she doesn't express it.So just relax and enjoy your life girl!

Guys, why is a girl having a "nice body" important?

the big boobs, the nice *ss, the tiny waist, the nice hips and thighs...yeah it's nice to have, but why are guys so fixated on them. I swear, guys notice that I have big boobs before knowing I have brown eyes >:( . Why????

OB appointment question..?

I've posted on here recently about depression during pregnancy and I've decided to talk to someone about it. My question is: I've got an appointment this Friday for a normal OB check up. Should I talk then or do I have to make a separate appointment for my depression issues?

How can i teach my dog to chase people?

how do you teach a dog to *fetch* somebody without harming them i had a dog once that was trained to walk without a leash and if someone ran we held him then told him to chase and let go he would run up to the person and nip at there heels his previous owner taught him that and im wondering if i can get my dog to do the same thing but instead of nipping at them grab them and pull them back to me (i don't have to worry about people getting hurt my dog will latch onto your clothes but when he's dealing with flesh he's amazingly gentle even when he's exited)

Is the fact that the AV vote clashes with the regional elections a coincidence?

Everything feels a bit flat and uninteresting at the moment, I didn't even know where to go to vote, as they have changed the venue for the very first time, it's just as though, they didn't want us to vote, fancy that?

What should I do with my Akita pup?

I have 2 Akitas. 10 year old Male Akita, with a dominant personality and a 5 year old Female Akita with a very passive personality that was a champion in my country. I adopted the female Akita during her heat. I was told to wait for her to bleed and then separate her from the male. It turns out, that the same day I introduce her to my family, my 10 year old dog mated with her. Currently, I am have 5 pups that I am giving for adoption (I am not a backyard breeder, an I don't care to make money of the pups). I call the representatives of AKC in my country to help me find proper homes for the dogs. They are currently 3 month old, and the people at AKC had to see them before recommending them. When they saw them they went crazy. They almost told me I was stupid to not keep one of them. There are two pups that they told me to please let them show them in the following tournament, because they will surely win. I explained to them that I already have 2 Akitas, and a third dog would be mayhem. They told me that my old dog would not be a problem, because he is REALLY old and Akita develop strong personalities around 2 years old. The dog they want me to keep is a pup that has beautiful coat, that looks like a pajama, but kind of crazy personality (looks very dominant). The other dog is a girl that has a personality in between. The people told me that they would prefer to have two male dogs, one old and one really young. They would not advice me to have two young female dogs, that their fights are the worst. I really do not know what to do! What would you do?

How can i have a transparent selection in photoshop?

There are loads of other selection tools other than the rectangular marquee. Try using onof the lassos or magic wand. Even using the rectangular selection tool you're not using it properly. Photoshop is a paint program not a drawing program and cannot separate out objects as it sounds you're trying to do. When you select part of the image, make sure you select only what you want to move.

Best way to help your dog with..?

I have a yorkie too but they just have to get used to them. Dont force him to go there if it doesent want to. I also have a huskey and it had to get used to my big dog. try taking him on normal walks like to a trail or a park where other dogs are but there are still the same amount of people. When it doesnt nip anymore, give hime rewards like treats untill it is normal.

Male kitten attacking female cat?

If your male is like mine, he's just playing. This will wear off with age. Mine is about 16 weeks now (not yet neutered). It is really hard to watch your older get cat getting distressed, but she'll eventually learn to batt the little one off and look after herself! My older cat is gradually learning, and I'm sure they'll be friends within the year! When my now older cat used was a kitty he was awful to my older boy (who sadly died in April), but they were best friends for years once he grew up. Good luck :-)

How do i get curls like these?

i don't know much about curling irons, but i think that you could get it done at a salon. or buy a wig. but i doubt you would do that

What are the parts of a Dazzle capture card?

Hey, about 8-12 months ago, I bought a Dazzle capture card. It cost me around $40 to $50. I didn't really use it, so I stuffed it away in a box full of cables, computer accessories, xbox accessories, etc. Now, I have a need for it, but I cannot put it together. I have all the parts, I just have to separate them, and I can't tell which ones are for my Dazzle. Can someone help me?? Is there a link that tells you how to put a Dazzle capture card together?? Thank you for your time.

Got nipples pierced last week, maybe be infected?

I got my nips pierced last week and i noticed the balls where trying to go into the skin, like embed them selves in my nips. So I went to the store got some longer bars, came home cleaned the bars and balls with antibacterial soap, and my holes with antibacterial soap and put the new ones in. Now my left nip is alittle swollen and my actual breat hurts. NO puss is coming from either holes, not hot to the touch on my nip or breast. Is it possible that i hit something while putting the bar back in thats making my breast hurt? Ne one have any ideas as to why its doing this? Or is it just tender from changing them out? I had to or the balls on the last one could have gone in my nips!

Weirdo told me he likes me?

you're doing fine, dont worry about this guy. also, he probably was only in the play because of his lust for you. you should be flattered, but being mildly creeped out is fine. i know exactly the kind of person you're talking about, and you've done nothing wrong. just try to forget about him, he's not worth you thinking about any more.

How many men/women worldwide are infected with AIDS?

I am creating a graph showing how many women are infected with AIDS in Sub-Saharan Africa compared to how many are infected worldwide and the same for men. I have how many are in Sub-Saharan Africa, but can't find how many worldwide. I need the men and women numbers separate. Thank for your help!

What can I do? First it's asian women now, redhead women. I'm fixated. Can someone give me advice?

Dude, don't worry. I have that attraction toward different types of women. Even redheads. I think it's just some sexual hormonal thing :)) I don't know. But in any case, just be sure not to be too ficle when it comes to women. It might become some sort of bad reputation women might give you.

Is this a valid reason to not like weed?

It doesn't matter why, any reason is okay for you not to like it. But no one really wants to hear you rant about it.

She wants me to sit buy her?

she wants me to sit buy her all the time or she comes to sit next to me when am with her we talk every day flirt etc. i have a feeling i am more than a friend to her but i don't really want to ask we spend time alone also not just when my friends are there. i want to know what other things i can look for separates me from being a friend and if she would ever tell me with me having to say any thing first.

Men, do you care about the size of a womans? ?

Areolas? The darker part around the nipple? I have never let a guy see my breasts because I am embarrassed of how big mine are and I am so self conscious. I don't want him to be turned off. I don't know what to do. I've been with this guy for a year and he wants to see my boobs but I never let him because I'm so scared to show him :( I feel so much self hate because of it. I know guys call girls "pepperoni nips and pancake nipples" and they think its funny but its not.. Its hurtful and I'm so sad

How can I train my dog to be less territorial?

its comman so dont feel bad the best thing to do is to tell her know if she listens to you then it should work when people come over put her on a leash let her smell if she does anything bad tell her no if she listens reward her with a tiny treat shell get ues to it

What methods should I use to encourage and train my puppy not to bark and whine?

I have recently adopted a 5 month old staffy lab cross who is extremely adorable. Sadly she's had a traumatic start in life and I am her 3rd owner since she was born! I have been giving her lots of love and reassurance. We play lots and walk at least twice a day. She is cage trained and fantastic on and off the lead and plays very well with other dogs. I discovered the other day when I popped out from a very miffed neighbour that's she barked and cried at a very high pitched level! Not ideal in an echoy terraced house! Looking it up on the internet I think she maybe suffering from separation anxiety issues. Understandable given her start in life. I want to nip this in the bud as quickly as possible so can anyone please advise on methods they have successfully used?

Why is my male guppy nipping my pregnant guppy?

well theres two male guppies nipping at her tummy and shes pregnant already o why arem they nippy her

Leopard gecko breeding?

So I have a have a juvenile leopard gecko who is growing and has a nice fat healthy tail and body. When he gets older we are thinking of breeding him. He is living in a 10 gallon cage now which he is doing great in. I am eventually going to move him up to a 25-30 gallon tank when he is full grown. So what I am hopefully going to do I have him in a cage by himself and his umm wife in suppose in a bigger tank with the babies when they are full grown and getting along (If they don't get along they will be separate) also she will be with all girls who get along. So I was wondering if that is ok if I missed anything and suggestions. I have been doing a ton of research and know that this a big responsibility. Where should I get his the female? Is online safe? Should I get her now or when the are both older? Ok thank you for any and all help!

What are your bunny methods?

I just got two 6 week old rabbits (brothers) named Oreo (who is black and white) and Blueberry (who is blue) from our friends farm. They are just the cutest little things! We keep them in the [bunny-proof] bathroom along with their litter box, water, pellets, hay, occasional fruit/veg, toys, etc. I've owned bunnies before, and I if I have a question i'll usually research it. But right now I want your personal opinion. What do you do when your bunnies are naughty? Like when they nip, scratch, dig, etc. Also, what tricks have you taught your rabbits? Please, pour out your rabbit training tecniqes, tips, and etc. Thanks!

LDS/MORMON>Bible inconsistencies, what to believe?

You do not understand. I find it amazing how people pick out these "inconsistencies" without bothering to pick up the book and read it for themselves.

How do i feel? how does he feel?

Guys are assholes, they just want attention and we have to do all the chasing nowadays so pathetic, move on from this loser, if he's interested HE WILL CALL YOU!

Can Asperger's be diagnosed at home?

Nothing can be diagnosed at home. It is speculation and deduction. You could be right but leave it to the pros. Drs don't mind your input, infact its called "taking a history" each time you see her/ him.

Employer based green card- EB2?

My husband filed for the green card through his employer in November 2007 (EB2 category -Indian citizen). We had certain marital issues that led to our separation in December 2008, after 3 years of marriage. I am on student visa and we had been living separated since that time while the divorce proceedings are ongoing in India. If my husband gets his green card, which he probably should within 1 year (May 2012), does that also qualify me to get GC if divorce doesn’t get finalized by that time. Will I be eligible to get it without his help?

Would you rather eat very healthy & live a long life or eat what you want (in moderation) & live a happy life?

why are you assuming that because you eat healthily you won't be as happy as someone who eats unhealthily? Don't you think you can eat healthily and be happy?

Am I turning into a crazy person?

I don't think so, but you sound a bit obsessive, do you by chance have OCD? you should talk to someone about it

People always think im staring at them wut do i do?

Wear sunglasses. They won't be able to tell if you are staring or not. They will just think that you are super cool.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

If modern liberals/socialists really were for EQUALITY why don't they support...?

There are so many things wrong with your statement that it really defies a concise answer. You clearly do not understand what the words liberal and socialist mean. Your "live and let live mentality" has absolutely nothing at all to do with equality, so the question is really meaningless.

Am I a highschool bully?

m a smart guy and I get good grades, I never skip classes essentially I'm very education oriented, I have lots of friends or at least people I can talk to and hang with. Any way people have been saying now for a while that I'm a douche to people or I'm mean person, but I do try to be nice to people I'm not out to get anyone, my mouth gets 3 steps ahea of me at times and I say something that I think is funny an no one else does they find it offensive, that doesn't happen often though. My friends say I'm a douche because I'm mean to others and act like I'm more intelligent than eeryone basically people think I'm cold and stuck up, I don't try to be it's just that my focus is generally fixated on getting good grades an not getting involved in the whole ******** part of highschool, you know, who did what whose popular, I think maybe I'm more mature than people or something, idk I can't figure out why people think I'm a douche,

9 week old ignores dad/other people, fixated on me?

Most babies are extremely attached to their moms for the first year or so. Especially breastfed ones. My daughter (3 months old) cries most of the time when my husband holds her!!! They just feel more comfortable with their moms, breastfeeding is very comforting to them and they associate it with you.

How much is an iPhone bill?

I wanted to buy an iPhone 3GS because its only $50 now. I was wondering how much i would pay. My family is already on a plan and i was wondering if i could still keep my plan which has unlimited texting and however many minutes and just add the 2GB data plan for $25. Or would my plan be separate from my familys? If anyone has any personal experience it would be much appreciated :)

I need advice, I would be grateful if someone would take the time to read this! thank you?

Hello, you before your heart, your soul Give me the song and then decide if that person really loves you and wants a day do you see as a draw. Set the priority of making a decision that you'll regret later. Be happy in whatever you decide

Why did I dream of this person?

All your thoughts and feelings you had for this girl were pushed back into your subconscious, which roams free in your dreams. So whatever you pushed in popped up in your dreams, which is why she is in them.

Guys, do you care about the size of a womans?

Areolas? The darker part around the nipple? I have never let a guy see my breasts because I am embarrassed of how big mine are and I am so self conscious. I don't want him to be turned off. I don't know what to do. I've been with this guy for a year and he wants to see my boobs but I never let him because I'm so scared to show him :( I feel so much self hate because of it. I know guys call girls "pepperoni nips and pancake nipples" and they think its funny but its not.. Its hurtful and I'm so sad.

Which dwarf hamster is less likely to fight?

Robo Dwarfs dont fight there are the most social hamsters out there! they love being with other Hamsters (of the same breed) and love to be with you to (and there soo cute) :)

Should I buy my dog a muzzle when taking her to the dog beach?

you should walk your dog with your neighbours dog as they seem to get along ... you do not bring an aggressive dog to a dog park/beach with a muzzle, you would just cause a huge dog fight ... it is your dogs energy that would set off the fight and the muzzle would make no difference ... your dog does not need doggie friends ... it does need to not attack other dogs ... and that can be accomplished by you ignoring other dogs on walks and ignoring your dogs behavior and just keep walking ... but do not bring your dog to a dog park/beach, that is for socialized dogs and it is not where you take a dog to socialize it ... you could do training classes with your dog, that helps to socialize them to other dogs in a safe environment ...

Getting dog used to me?

sounds like the dog needs serious training or put down for being so agressive. no dog should be allowed to attack a child.

Do I sound shallow to you? ?

No, the people on here that say "yes" are stupid. Every one dreams of this kindof thing. It's human nature. But, there are more important things in life and you should learn to realize that. It's okay to wish for great things and a stunning significant other, but don't be blinded from reality because of it.

When I get my male cat neutered will my female cat be less aggressive?

Yes, most likely. Female cats are aggressive to male cats mostly during mating season, when they will be more guarded. But on some occasions, it doesn't work. I have a friend who has two cats, one male one female, and a similar situation. However, once she got the male neutered, they continued to fight. Since they range so much in age, and you've had Izzy longer than Jack, it's because Izzy isn't happy that another cat is in her territory. So I don't think neutering Jack will help, but it might. :) Hope I helped!

Why is umemployment rate going back up?

Is Obama too fixated on War Mongering now that it makes him more popular? And what about Illegal immigration? Where is Obama on domestic issues?

What can you do about people who like to bring up your past traumatic situations in casual conversations?

I just stay away from such people. They aren't really friends anyway or they would have enough compassion to leave the past in the past. If avoiding such people is not an option, the "look" of death and a quick exit works wonders on some folks However, there are some that just seem hell bent on re-living horrible experiences, so if that is the case, just make some comment to them that points out THEY are the ones that enjoy such conversations, but you can definitely live without ever mentioning it again.

Why does my boyfriend wana get me pregnant so bad??!?

Ive known him for 5 years but been with him for almost a year. Ive made it 100% clear that marriage is 1st then children. I am in no rush for marriage or children i actually appreciate it being jus me n him. Besides i come frm a family of 7[single parent!] his is 4 w/ both parents. I love him to tears and i want 2-3 kids but i am in NO rush. Im only 19 n he's 20! He loves me a lot and wants to get married n a few years and then start on kids...he even comes up with names! [ok i participate too] but he's fixated on marrying me and gettin me knocked up! Whats his deal?! Bcuz im not mentally or emotionally ready for kids and he totally is. I dont want this to be the fall of out relationship!

Which book should I read first?

Today I bought a few Dan Brown books: Da Vinci Code, Angels & Demons, Digital Fortress and Deception Point. I already know that DP and DF are separate books and that DVC and AD have the same protagonist. I just want to know which one you would suggest for me to read first. What was your favourite?

Tankmate for my betta, shrimp, and cories?

Your tank is fully stocked as it is. I wouldn't add anything more. Upgrade and Platies would be an excellent choice. Unless your Cories are "pygmies" they will outgrow that tank, anyway. Just so you know.

If Jesus is God, how was he "tempted by the Devil"?

I do not think you will be getting a truthful answer. Look at one of the answers here. This person said that Jesus was fully God and that his man side was what was tempted. He does not understand and is truly blinded to truth.

Is the bypass on the Marshall Haze 40 a true bypass, or does it just shut off the digital effects.?

I'm looking into buying a Marshall Haze 40 combo which would be my first tube amp. I'm looking for a good clean sound, but also a ability to have a lot of really nice classic rock and blues sounds. The only thing that has put me off about this amp is the digital effects. Its claimed by many sources to have "True Bypass" but is this actually a bypass where the signal is transferred on a separate path, or does it still flow through the digital portion? Any help on how this bypass system works would be greatly appreciated.

Why do people tend to flock around me when Im PMT'ing? I don't get it?

I swear down when ever Im going through PMT unaware of it at the time but anytime I have PMT that's when everyone flocks around me can the aura radiate confusion and attract people and Im always going through hell during that time, how can people sense that Im going through that? And then prompt themselves to come around me. Ive actually recorded it on the calender the only time people well family and its usually to start confusion but they come around me during PMT why pick that time? and now I definitely know before hand Im going to try and nip it in the but but because my Cycle is irregular its hard to know when it crops up.

Question about my new puppy and one year old dog...?

My puppy is 8 weeks old, and our older, one year old dog came with us to pick her out. The two got along immediately, but I've found that now, about a week in, the older dog will occasionally "pick fights" with the puppy, going over and stealing her chew toy or nipping her on the tail or deliberately jumping on her- the puppy immediately gets defensive and growls and nips. We supervise the two when they are together and there's a definite difference between play and fighting. The two dogs have separate areas: our puppy has taken over the small office that's attached to our kitchen and the older dog has the family room (also attached to the kitchen but on the opposite side of the room). The dogs have their own crates in their own areas as well as their own food that we keep in their respective areas. The two dogs cannot access each others space without supervision and the only time they interact is in the kitchen. What can I do to show my older dog that this younger puppy is not a threat?

Did this reporter ever have a pokemon?

They definitely needed Ash Ketchum to help them choose a more effective weapon against rioters! Any advice would do!

Is it possible that i like man but i don't know it?

I am a 41 year old man. I am separated and has one kid. I realized that i am acting like a macho man and quite sadistic to females. Somebody told me i am gay and thinking about that a lot. How can i know that i have homosexual tendencies?

Is it possible for everyone not to like one person?

Okay, let's just state for the record, something is certainly going on here. It doesn't sound like everyone does not like you, something about you is causing them to take note in such a fashion that it's causing you concern. If I were you, I'd ask a friend or relative whom you trust to be very honest with you and tell you what they think it is. Why not upload a photo of yourself, just the way you dress in everyday life and ask yahoo viewers to see if they can help narrow down why you are getting the response you're getting. You say that someone stated that you are the coolest and nicest person they met, so maybe it's the way you are presenting yourself.

Why am I such a douchebag?

I'm a smart guy and I get good grades, I never skip classes essentially I'm very education oriented, I have lots of friends or at least people I can talk to and hang with. Any way people have been saying now for a while that I'm a douche to people or I'm mean person, but I do try to be nice to people I'm not out to get anyone, my mouth gets 3 steps ahea of me at times and I say something that I think is funny an no one else does they find it offensive, that doesn't happen often though. My friends say I'm a douche because I'm mean to others and act like I'm more intelligent than eeryone basically people think I'm cold and stuck up, I don't try to be it's just that my focus is generally fixated on getting good grades an not getting involved in the whole bullshit part of highschool, you know, who did what whose popular, I think maybe I'm more mature than people or something, idk I can't figure out why people think I'm a douche,

How can I make sure that my son doesn't turn into a gay?

My brother's son just announced to the family that he is a gay and in doing so has disgraced our family name. My brother is considering sending his son to a Baptist rehab camp where they pray the gay away or something like that. I have a two year old of my own and I am worried that he might turn into a gay, too. I heard somewhere that it might be genetic. As soon as my husband told me about our nephew I went out and bought my son a shopping cart full of action figures and threw out all of the Disney movies in our house. I know he's only two years old but I want to nip this thing in the bud before it gets out of hand. What more can I do to prevent him from doing something that could potentially destroy his life? Should I homeschool him?

Why am i always spotted out?

Maybe your just paranoid. I'm guessing your in your teens? (Sorry if I'm way off) but I think that's how we all feel at one point.

Why are christians so obsessed with homosexuality?

Just keep in mind that there are thousands and thousands of us Christians who find homophobia morally repugnant. But the ones who are obsessed don't have the guts to take on real heterosexual problems like adultery, fornication and divorce, so they create huge anti-gay pressure groups, spend millions and get rich off the fear-mongering. (Check out some time how much the leaders of those groups make annually.) All the while, their followers are so caught up in it that they don't stop and think, "Hmmm, why is divorce not going down, marriages not being saved, fornication not lessening?"

Is it just me that on Glee they fixate out Kurt's sexuality?

Television is not known for subtle characterizations. They only have less than 50 mins of program time to establish characters and hatch a plot and resolve it, so they tend to do everything in a heavy handed, in your face kind of way. It ain't high art, nor is it reality. All recurring TV characters are caricatures -- it's just the nature of the medium.

Can I be made to testify against husband?

If you have no direct evidence, there IS no need for you to testify. On the other hand, if you are called to testify, nothing you would say would have any bearing (since you know nothing)

What does it mean that my husband treated another woman like this?

You need to stop listening to this woman. She is starting trouble and is probably jealous of this girl. Women in offices love drama... they thrive on it and this woman is no exception. Disregard this ridiculous "hear say" and don't borrow trouble. If something is going on you will see the signs yourself, at home.

Saturday, July 16, 2011

My jack russell mix becomes paralyzed in his back legs when he's really scared, do I need to be concerned?.?

I think your dog needs to see a vet what you are describing is not normal so please get your puppy vet checked

This is for Christians, what am I supposed to do?

there is one unforgivable sin you can;t commit it yet god said he will for give us 7x70 times a day so you take it from there

Why are my fish nipping at each other?

They are constantly bitting at each other and it's concerning me. Each day it the other one bitting the other. They are 2 guppies I got from petsmart from the same tank. There currently in a 1 gallon tank together. I lve had them for about 3 weeks and they just started doing this about 3-4 days ago. What's wrong with my fish?

What do you think about Benzema joining Juventus?

I heard a little rumor that Benzema will be signing with Juventus next season, though Real Madrid does not want to get rid of him for the price they offered, I believe a twist on the arm will do it, because Benz said he is not happy with Real Madrid because he never plays. I personally am a HUGE Benzema fan and REALLY hope to see him in Juventus next season he will be a great asset (as long as we get rid of Gigi Delneri who is fixated on 4-4-2 and does not realize if he puts Toni and Matri up front and Del Piero behind them that this is a VERY dangerous attack. Especially with Quagliarella recovering (I do not see Toni staying in Juventus for long because he changes teams like he changes underwear and Iaquinta needs to go because he sucks). So with Benzema, Matri, and Quagliarella in attack and Del Piero behind them, Milos and Melo and Pirlo (Marchisio and Pepe have to go they are not playing well at all). Then with defense they must keep Chiellini and Bonucci and get rid of the rest (keep Buffon of course)... What do you think? Do you think Real will release Benzema if he has clearly stated he is not happy there?

Does my rabbit like me?

I got a mini lop rabbit, and sometimes I willpick her up and sit her on my lap and she will stay there and slowly fall asleep as i pet her but sometimes when she doesnt want to shell hop off lol, everyone tells me she LOVES you but I dont believe it. when were outside she will lay completely on next to my legs and stretch out but when my neighbors came to pet her when I went inside they said she tried to scurry away and was hiding and was looking for me but I dont believe them and idk why!!! when she hops around she will always come visit me but sometimes she nips my fingers lol. does she REALLY like me? i just feel like she doesnt.

Fixated on looks --- normal or not? (10 points)?

I think your thinking is like most girl's and I am a woman, I should know. I did marry a very good looking man who was a rat! It took a long time to find out what was under the surface. All that shines is not gold. I eventually divorced him. Throughout the years, I have found that sometimes you meet a person that is not so great looking but that, once you get to know them, they really become more and more beautiful because their ''soul'' or whatever you want to call the personality, shines through and you cannot help yourself but be attracted. I think you may be losing out by such a triage. Also, let yourself shine through, I doubt that you are just average. Smile and you will find that you too are really beautiful and people won't be able to resist you. I am almost 70, smile a lot and strangers are always coming to me and smiling back. Give a smile to one person, that person will in turn to someone else and pretty soon, the whole world will be smiling. I hope this helps.

Can she really do that.!?

Okay well when I was little I got taken away from my mom because she was under the influence when she had me and then she got sent to jail. Therefor i got placed for adoption then my grandma decided to adopt me so I wouldn't be separated from my family and then now I'm 13 almost 14 I'm on probation now and my mom wants me to move with her I'n californa and I actually don't want to and she said that she is going to try to open the adoption again but I dont think she can do that but if she can and wants to take me back is it up to me on who I want to go with because I don't want to go with my mother I wanna stay with my grandmother to help her because I want to show her I'm capable of changing just for her not for my mother I could care less bout her so can she open up the adoption n if she can is it up to me weather I want to go with her or not.? Plz help

People to bathroom/toilet ratio?

Six people sharing one bath is unacceptable. In the states two to one bath is typically the norm. Look for a flat that isn't a "rooming house" layout if you can afford it. Personally I wouldn't share a bathroom with strangers, in the UK this may not have been an issue 60 years ago...

Becoming obsessed with reading the classics?

Of course it's not a problem!!! Classics are great books to read, since they usually have more eloquent language etc and are interesting since they're not set in our time!!! Just keep reading them!!! You should read Anne of Green Gables (it's a series if you like the first one), Black Beauty, Oliver Twist, "North and South", Mansfield Park and Persuasian as well!!!:)

In tesco, do you have to spend a certain amount to use your debit card?

Nope. The charge can be as little as one pence. As long as you have cash in the account to cover it, you can get as much or as little as you want.

How do I train an aggressive min pin? ?

The love of my life is my 2 year old miniature pinscher. The problem is that, although she loves me and a few close friends to death (enough to happy squirt when she sees them) she does not fair well with strangers. She will attempt nipping and does not stop barking and jumping at them. She is also IMPOSSIBLE to take to the dog park and goes viscous on other dogs when they come up to her. How can I stop her aggression? I've tried everything!

Need help w/ obsessions triggered by mean women?

I'm a guy, so I'll give you a guys perspective. Most men won't give a crap about that, and the Women who are judging you I wouldn't trip. Most people make mistakes, people just judge to cover up their own problems and shift the negative attention towards others.

How to go about separating dogs?

So my boyfriend had a dog and he got me a dog after awhile. The dog we got was 9 months (beagle) at the time and his dog was 1 yr (Australian shepherd). I am staying in my bfs house for the summer with the dogs while he is away for work. Unfortunately we have broken up and when he gets back I will be finding my own place and taking my dog (beagle) with me. How hard is this on dog's, what can I do to make it easier, etc? I don't want to separate them but it has to be done. We've had the dogs together for about a year and they have always lived together. Thanks

Google Apps for Business?

I really want to have company wide calenders and contacts that sync with our phones etc. I was thinking about an in-house server, but with some employees working in a separate office it would probably be a really slow connection. Write not were using remote access and have outlook. Can I keep my outlook email addresses if we go with Google apps? What would be the pros and cons to having this product for me?

Was my response to my ex fair?

I don't get it. My ex broke up with me I was fine with it and said I was going move on. I let him know I was going to delete him from fb until I was ready to be friends. well he repeatedly tried to gete a hold of me on fb and I just said I think its best staying this way. He said OK that he would leave it to me when we would be friends... months go by he requests me again along with some response about me not being a d-bag and just adding him because he knew I wanted to. I have moved on and am dating someone else and I told him "for lack of a better way to say it that I really didn't want anything to do with him. It was nothing personal, I wasn't hurt, I didn't hate him I just was over it. And at this point who really cares anymore" I wished him luck. not sure why he wanted to be friends with me so bad ( we were only romantic for 3 months and had no history of friendship.) Was my response to him fair? Why is a guy who broke up with me so fixated on this fb thing/ friendship thing?

BooOooooobs. Nip sizes?

I have 32D boobs and my areoles(or whatever is around the actual nipple) is about 3 inches in length. I am self concious that they are big but im not sure. What do you think?

Letting people know about a pregnancy?

So, someone I know a girl who is separated from her husband, and they have a little girl together. The girl just found out that she is almost 2 months pregnant. She told her brother and mother and they said to think about abortion, but she's against it. She already loves this baby. The father of this baby knows and is very excited. He's already offered support and to move in together so that they can raise the baby as a family. She is in love with him. She doesn't not know how to tell her daughter's father about the new baby. She is expecting him to flip out, and is afraid of losing her daughter. She already has high anxiety, and this whole situation is making it worse. Any advice?

What does the world call New Zealanders? In slang/offencive terms?

Kiwis. No one has anything bad to say about New Zealand haha that I know of. If they do, they're probably just being obnoxious and want to insult people. Or they live there and just don't like it idk.

Why do they look at me and shout his name?

I always walk past my ex boyfriend at least once a day at school, but whenever I do, all his friends shout his name so that he sees me and he stares at me and they all watch me walk past. It freaks me out because their always staring at me if I'm anywhere near them. His best friend also has his eyes fixated on me wherever I go. He gives me a weird look and try's to hear what I'm talking about with my friends. What could this mean?

What should we do about our dog?

It sounds like you have a large dog who has been allowed to run the household, (just as she ran her PRIOR household), and so thinks SHE is the leader. With your low level of dog handling skill, this is NOT something I recommend you try to fix yourself. This dog is too strong, and has gotten away with too much for too long. Either find a good private trainer experienced with headstrong dogs, or surrender her to a Mastiff rescue organization. They will have people experienced with the breed, and used to dealing with problem dogs. If you continue the way you have, someone is going to get SERIOUSLY hurt.

Will this be ok to do?

I have a 10 gallon tropical fish tank and right not I have 3 Zebra Danios. I wanted to add some guppies to make it colorful but I was wondering do you think the Danios will fin nip the Guppies since they're not in a group of 6? I know the biggest Danio likes to chase around the other two little ones, so I guess he would be the boss of the tank. Do you think adding 2 or 3 guppies to my tank would be a bad idea?

.......Am I Pregnant?......?

My periods skip on me a lot, but it has been almost 5 weeks since my last one. I have been feeling the need to barf for almost 3 days now, when I think of any kind of food or smell any kind of food I want to hurl. I get up every 1 1/2 hour at night to use the rest room and I have been very snappy to my boy friend. My breasts have grown and are heavier then before, and my nips hurt like hell whenever I touch them or even put a bra on. But I am not craving any kind of food, and other then being snappy and pissy with my boyfriend I do not feel "hormonal sexually" like I was the last time I was pregnant. I dont really have the money right now to buy a 14-25 dollar birth control test because we just moved from LA to Iowa City and I have better things to spend money on....like food I am to discussed to eat but must if I dont want to starve... please let me know your thoughts.

Can a dealership buy out a lease?

My getting a new car obsessed/fixated husband thinks that he can get rid of his 2010 lease with 15k miles and get a fast, sporty car. His credit isn't the best in the west, and they've asked me to co sign (good credit so far, but have a purchase on mine at the moment). He says the dealer said that they would love to buy his lease and would need a car like that on their lot. They said they will contact the lease holder, who is the car manufacturer. I smell a rat on this one. What is true?

White Men & Black Women In the Workplace?

Why is it that older married men at work like to flirt with young women, call them "pet names" & check them out? I think it's very unprofessional, esp. if the woman is not coaxing/encouraging him or wearing revealing clothes. I'm a shy kind of girl & one of my officemates is constantly doing this. I've heard it's only me that he does this to. He also asks my opinion on certain things. A lady coworker of mine said it's because there is no respect/validation at home/from the wife. Why do they fixate themselves on one woman & not do this to other women in the office?

I may have an eating disorder?

I am 31 5ft1 I am 98 pounds. Recently going through a hard relationship. I feel so alone and hurt. I cry all day and not much od anything makes me happy. I am fixated on making things work with him but meanwhile I can't eat much. I try but I just can't I get sad when I think about food most times. I am not sure why but I get like a feeling of guilt. When we were happy I didn't have this. I weighed 140 when we met. I just love him so much and I dont know why food came into the equation. People are starting to talk. Everyone tells me to "eat". I do eat but I also do relate it to sadness of this relationship problems.I dont know what is going on with me. I dont like the way it looks at all. his lady in the mall said i looked anorexic to her friend today when I walked by. People at church have asked the same thing. I am not sure what to do. I just want to honestly cry all day and night. I never thought my boyfriend would treat me like this and not be there for me.

How far apart can I place the anode and cathode when doing electrolysis of water?

Ever since I learned how to do electrolysis is high school I've always wondered how the oxygen and hydrogen manage to go so neatly into separate places once the water molecule gets broken up. Where are the molecules that get pulled apart? Between the nodes? At the nodes? How do the H2 and O2 molecules navigate to their respective poles to form bubbles? Ultimately...How far apart can I place the nodes and still be able to perform electrolysis? Does this affect the current required? Hmmm, I kinda just answered that last one in my head but still...please indulge me!

I didnt cycle my fish tank?

Its great they they are in a 10 gallon with a filter instead of a bowl. With betta's, you should not have to feed them much, maybe once a day to every other day. Feeding less will help keep the bioload down until your tank is cycled. If you want you can test for ammonia, nitrites, and nitrates to see how your cycle is coming along. However your best bet is to just do small frequent water changes. 1 gallon water changes twice a week, maybe even 2 gallon water changes once a week until you know how the cycle is coming along. Bettas dont have a very big bioload in the first place so just make sure you dont overfeed and your bettas will be very happy and healthy. If your bettas start to flare up at each other through the divider you may want to consider exchanging one of the males for a female.

I can’t understand his exact feelings for me?

I think he is right, you should find someone else that can be a perfect match for you. At least you got that feeling back of being wanted. You need to end the marrage though, and make sure the next person you persue is not married either. 2 wrongs dont make a right. You can go online to dating websites as well to look. www.plentyoffish.com is free. My brother met his wife on E-Harmony. It may sound cheesey but sometime those sites really work. Even if you dont fall in love with someone you can enjoy the company of others and meeting new people.

Was she talking about me? does she love me?

A year ago, a good friend of mine and me were getting closer and made out a couple of times. the sitution was complicated bc my ex is her friend, and we all still chill. so the girl told me what was going on couldnt happen anymore. then this fall i told her how i feel for her and she said 'we can't be together right now' but she basically distanced herself from me. then just now she randomly messaged me, telling me among other things that she lost weight. i told her i always thought she was beautiful. i asked why she had separated herself from me. she said she didnt want to answer, but then on her AIM her status she said she once loved someone whose situation made her run away. was she talking about me? did she love me back?

How do I know what my dog's intentions are with my new kitten?

I just got a female kitten and we keep them separated. He's a terrier dog, so he has a prey drive, but he's acting calm around her, when we bring them close he sniffs her and lick her. However I don't like them getting too close because I'm afraid he's gonna bite her and try to eat her. He always tries to get to the kitten and when i bring her out he's fixated on her, jumping up and panting. I noticed his tongue sticks out and he starts drooling and licking his lips almost like she's a piece of meat, but he hasn't snapped at her yet or growled or barked or anything else that indicated he was being agressive, just very excited. So how do I know, without anyone getting hurt?

Information on Google Apps for Business?

I really want to have company wide calenders and contacts that sync with our phones etc. I was thinking about an in-house server, but with some employees working in a separate office it would probably be a really slow connection. Write not were using remote access and have outlook. Can I keep my outlook email addresses if we go with Google apps? What would be the pros and cons to having this product for me?

Going to college with high school sweetheart?

My high school boyfriend and I are going to the same college next fall on the same scholarship. We will be in a couple of the same classes and in the same dorm building. It's so great that I can be able to stay with him and not have to be alone during this big transition of my life! But I want to make sure we dont miss out on the college experience- I want us to be able to be independent and have our own fun and make our own new friends. What guidelines or steps can we take to make sure we each have our own separate experiences while still staying together?

I am very scared......plz help?

we live in the middle of the woods. We have a few neighbors, but not like normal neighbors, they are separated by the forest area. Well I just heard the neighbors shoot.....twice. They NEVER shoot. The only animal I have is a tiny **** zu, lol.Am RIGHT I mean like sitting under the window watching for someone. My mom is sleeping across the room. I refuse to wake her up unless it's an emergency. The porch lights are on, but it's pitch black in here. It's almost 2:00 am. I am scared that they were shooting at something bad, like a robber. I am 11. HELP!

Is it normal to enjoy recieving unintentional negative attention?

I know that some people are easy to p*ss off and offend, even if you didn't mean too. Is it normal to be thrilled that a person is mad at you over something silly? Like you preferences or hairstyle? I have a friend who just found out that she offended her roommate because she said that she "likes to be lean and thin". I think it's silly that her roommate would be upset over this, but I think my friend should just ignore the anger. Instead, my friend is going out of her way to annoy her roommate even further. She is going to the gym everyday and dropping subtle hints she wants to lose more weight. Her roommate hates diets and societies obsession with clothing size, so my friend knows her behavior bothers her. I will admit that I some people are easy to p*ss off and offend, and I have taken advantage of this when I was in highschool, because it was funny to see someone so fixated on you over something silly. My friend does it chronically, if she finds out that someone is mad at her over something stupid, then she is thrilled. One time she found out that someone disliked her for bleaching her hair blonde, she then began to make it a point to mention her next salon visit everytime the said person was in the room. I just try to ignore people who are over-sensitive and insecure, but my friend loves and revels in the negative attention she recieves over stupid things.

Got no answer. Does Geodon help with OCD? I am incredibly anxious all the time. I don't know if it helps?

with generalized anxiety or OCD as well. I am so nervous all the time and fixate on negative thoughts and get really anxious and irritable. I want to know if bumping up my Geodon would have a good chance of helping me.

Why does Samaritan's Purse spend more gov't monies on "evangelising" than actual aid in disaster relief?

Why has the Jerry Lewis telethon raised over 2 billion dollars for muscular dystrophy yet nothing has been accomplished with that money??

How to set up an ice luge on a boat?

I've used ice luges and normally just put on top of some type of box. Pour at top and b sure to have glass in place at the bottom, Hope this helps unless i'm understanding the question wrong.

How do I keep in touch with this girl?

Just ask her one day if you can Facebook or email her or text her or something sometime..since there's only 3 days left, what's the worst she can do..?? Say no? lol xD

Are there really co-ed bathrooms at some colleges?

I was talking to someone the other day and I'm fully aware that there are co-ed dorms at many colleges (I'm currently at community college) but someone was telling me that there's co-ed bathrooms at their college! Like toilet, sinks, showers type of bathrooms...was this for real? I'm no prude but that honestly seems like it's just asking for bad things to happen...like guys setting up hidden cameras in the shower, peeping on people, attacking the lone girl in the shower late at night, etc. and it also seems like it would be illegal (plus it would just be annoying because you wouldn't be able to wander around half naked like in a locker room while getting dressed). Most public restrooms are separated by sex. So, does this really exist? I've actually heard about this a few times before and I don't really believe its real. And if it is, do you have any experience or feedback about it? Thanks and sorry this is a weird question!

Friday, July 15, 2011

What do you think about Tom Cruise's personality? Does he seem to be fixated on any of Freud's stages?

What kind of personality do you think he has? Does he seem to be fixated or stuck on any of Freud's stages of childhood development? I do know that he was abused by his father.

I can't stop doing research???? Help?

It sounds like you have an OCD, I have one where I'm obsessed with Germs, I have to wash my hands all the time. There's many different types of OCD. Look at this website and see if your symptoms match the ones on this website and if they do go to your local doctor.

Will you rate these characters?

the ringmaster sounds very intriguing, have u made up a secret past for him? i want to read and find out, no jokes 100000000000000000000000000/10

How do I stop my recently nippy dog?

I have a Beagle- Australian Shepard mix, who has what can best be identified as little-man syndrome. She is EXTREMELY obnoxious about strangers in the house, even if these "strangers" she's met a million times before. She is terrified of children, having had a lot of bad experiences with being kicked and abused, and this causes her to growl at them and not let them come near her. Recently, a next door neighbor came over that she knows well enough, and she nipped him in the back of the leg. Probably a week later, a small girl came over when I wasn't home, and she nipped the poor girl in the hand. Just now, a close friend of mine came over, who tried to reach out and pet her, and though she has also known him for some time, tried to nip him as well. I'm at my wits end, with my mom telling me I need to get rid of her, but I know with her attitude towards strangers she would not be able to be adopted. I should also add that she has been socialized since I first held her in my arms, and used to be able to just fall asleep in anyone's lap, even if she had just met them. She is also an alpha, and since living with my mom, who owns 2 black labs, has become increasingly stressed out. We are know giving them to better homes, because I am about to have a baby, and as they are sweet dogs, we don't have the time or patience to properly train them. The best thing for them is a new home, but for Lexi, the dog in question, I know in my heart that is not the case. PLEASE HELP!!!!

If a realtor is selling a piece of land and says" Prints available for a 1600 square foot new home".?

Does that mean that the price for the land includes the cost of construction for the new house or is the lot of land a separate amount and the cost for the construction is another amount?

Help..I think I am Caught up.?

My childhood friend of over 20 plus years and I have reunite. Irisk of losing their girl and possible kids We have so much in common. We laugh and joke all day abt child hood memories. We have both found ourselves in somewhat incomplete relationships and somehow the mutual presence feel that void. I listen to him and here his unhappiness and he knows my story. How do we draw the line? The attraction is strong!!! He is in a relationship and I am legally separated and celebant for over 3 years..HELP!!

Is it ok to have a TWO YEAR OLD in the delivery room?

my sister had her two year old in the delivery room and she watched EVERYTHING. She was scared and crying. then she started becomming fixated with the genitalia on her toys and acting out with herself by trying to put small baby dolls INSIDE her own vagina. she was a perfectly normal child until then. does anyone else think it's wrong to have a two year old witness childbirth?

How many fish, and what kinds?

just a betta, with maybe some ghost shrimp and a snail. you have no more room for anything else, sorry. also, if you get a plant light, you will be able to raise java ferns

Are the chem lecture classes and the lab classes two different classes?

I'm going to a UC next year and I plan to take four classes. Are the lecture and lab classes considered separate? Example: chem 1A and chem 1AL

Hypocondriac problems. Help?

I am a terrible hypochondriac, and every now and then i fixate on some illness and stress to myself that I have it. Even though I know beyond logical doubt that not only do I not have it, the chances of getting it are insanely miniscule. Today I'm haunted by the human form of mad cow disease. No matter how I convince myself there's no way I have it, my mind just keeps thinking I have it and it terrifies me. I constantly smoke pot, but I don't know if this is causing my fear or not. Here's another thing, I've been doing things weirdly in the past few days. Like- I say gramatically incorrect phrases (which isn't typical because I typically come of as rather smart and make good grades) I've been doing weird things - for example- I put a paper towel roll in the fridge, or I leave faucets on, and seem to just feel different lately. Any suggestions?

Why are people so picky when a movie is made from a novel that they like?

because we ahve an idea what the characters look like and the way they act and hollywood rarely gets it right. plus they seem to always cut out the good parts and copress the etory until you dont recognize it anymore.

Do you think Republicans are trying to make Michelle Obama's butt a campaign issue?

I've been around here for awhile and I'm sick and tired of seeing these stupid questions about her butt. Nobody should care except her husband. What do you think, are they trying to make it a campaign issue? Should it be a campaign issue? Do people who are fixated by her butt really want her?

Why is my dog acting like this?

I'm gonna say, not protection, and not jealousy. You have a gentle, calm dog with manners. Your lab mix doesn't like the other dog's energy level and is trying to control her behavior and make her calm down.

Why are conservatives so "consumed" by the Wiener affair?

One thing I know is that Republicans run on MORAL VALUES and yet they don't follow it..... That is more hypocrisy than Democrats who does not run generally on those. Also, Anthony Weiner basically did was flirting with a bunch of woman in social networks like many Americans do on those sites. He did not do anything physically.

What should I name my wolf pack?

'Domination Stars', or.. uh.. 'Demolition Destiny'? 'Rose Of Love'? Uhm.. I'm not good with this. Haha.

Am i the only one who's jumping for joy?

TSA NOW ALLOWS 3.4 OUNCES OF LIQUID ON YOUR CARRY ON NOT JUST 3 I AM SO EXCITED BECAUSE SOME OF MY FAVORITE MAKEUP PROUDUCTS ARE LIKE 3.2 OUNCES oops left the caps lock on even though i still hate TSA i thing 1 or 2 of them are just nipping the taste of goodness

Weird thoughts and behaviors? Help?

see a psychiatrist... they can prescribe you medication. your not alone... i know allot of people who have weird thoughts&behaviors very similar to yours

2008 Dodge Ram check engine light?

We bought this used in March. This morning the Change Oil light flashed and the check engine light came on and has not gone off. Does the check engine light go on with this model when the oil needs to be changed or is this a separate issue? The change oil light went off. It had an oil change last month because we were unsure if the dealer had changed it or not when we purchased it.

How can fixated nitrogen help weight lifters?

There are a lot of different forms of nitrogen fixation. If you mean proteins or amino acids, these are used in constructing new muscle fibers. Other forms of nitrogen fixation such as ammonia or urea are not useful.

My parakeet just lost a friend so i got him a new one but he isn't to friendly, what should I do?

So I had these two parakeets named Zipper and Sailor. They were BEST FRIENDS and inseparable. Then one day they were hanging on a hook in their cage on our outside patio, my dad (who is very tall) walked without seeing it and knocked it off the hook. The cage fell apart and Zipper was molting so he couldn't fly but Sailor got away. We put the cage back together and got Zipper inside, luckily he wasn't injured. But Sailor flew off somewhere, and we knew from one time when we separated the two that they both started to flip out and were chirping for each other. So Sailor was gone and Zipper was all alone so my mom brought me to Petsmart and I got a new parakeet, we asked the gender and the lady said that it was too young to tell what gender but she guessed it would be a girl. I named her Lila and she's a very pretty bird. We put her in the cage and they don't fight but they don't interact and sometimes Zipper nips her to keep her away from him and one time pushed her off the perch. I REALLY hope that Sailor is okay and that he might return to us but those chances are slim to none and if he did he would be traumatized. What should I do to make them friends with each other? I know that I should just wait but I can't help but worry. I don't know if it matters but none of them are hand-trained. Please help me.

What old "expression" do u remember your grandparents saying?

I remember.... "We're going to nip it in the bud"...meaning>>> we will take care of it before it becomes a larger problem.

Ladies ONLY: How would feel if another woman just randomly told you she just wanted eat your p......?

honestly, i would feel extremely uncomfortable and tell her respectfully that i'm straight and not interested in ANY type of relationship/hookup with a person of the same sex

How can I get my map pack to download completely?

Ok so I already purchased Map Pack 2 for the PS3 but its not downloading completely. I have tried downloading it on separate occasions but it keeps freezing at 47% (1131/2355). I don't know if its my playstation or my internet connection, I even left it over night and it still was at 47%. Any suggestions on what I could do to get it to download??

Thursday, July 14, 2011

How can I get my horse to stop biting me?

she will try to nip at me sometimes and i dont really want her to do that stuff how can i make her stop??? PLEASE HELP SOS!!!

One object in powerpoint to break apart and regroup with separate animations?

i am creating a slide in powerpoint and i have one object (visio drawing) that i have placed on the slide. i would like to be able to take this image and apply multiple animations to it by having certain parts of the drawing appear at different times of the animation, but then come back together as a whole drawing. How can i make this happen?

Relationships why do i cheat?

I don't know why I have a problem I try so hard to be good but I have urges to cheat on my boyfriend and can't never stay in a relationship long enough and I always walk out when something so small happens, I am very independent woman but what's wrong with me? After I break up with them I regret it or I am fixated in thinking they are cheating on me and I always start to fight about it why????

Is becoming fixated on people a sign of low self-esteem?

I have always had a tendency to really become fixated on a guy if he even shows a little interest in me. Maybe I want to have a relationship so much I feel I'm willing to work hard at it. I just wondered if this is a sign that I don't value myself. Most of the time, the guy turns out to be a player, my feelings get hurt, and my heart is broken. Not sure how to get past this fixation tendency. Any thoughts?

How to playfully fight with a girl?

My best friend & I had a nougie(sp? )war on a trampoline. It was hilarious and we ended up laughing crazy hard haha. We pretend fight a lot, play two-person tag, it's just what we do.

Why are women so fixated on how a guy looks rather than his personality?

Why is it unless you look spanish or latino most women are not interested. That's pretty shallow just to date a guy just because of how he looks. Most women say they want a guy with personality rather than looks but everyone knows that is BS.

How do I get my puppy to stop biting people?

I've had my new puppy for about 3 weeks now and lately he's been getting really riled up and starts to bite people (not really hard or anything, but I just don't want him to bite when he's older - He's a Doberman X German Shepherd). He's also started to nip at the back of peoples' legs as they walk away from him. When you try to tell him not to bite, he just takes it as if you are playing with him and continues to do it and jump around aggressively while growling. Any tips/tricks that might help me? Thanks a lot.

My silly little cat keeps staring at the ceiling fan?

Your cat can be in what vets call Zen Mode. When a cat is in this state, it just means that they are relaxing and meditating in their own way. My cat use to do the same thing, I took him to the vet and he told me that cats can see what the human eye can not. Your cat's eye can spot even a dust particle that we can not even see. There must be something like a little insect or dust particle that is calling your cat’s attention. Sometimes cats tend to have a fascination for a certain object and look at the object to find ways to reach it. Your cat is probably thinking of a way to reach the ceiling fan to play with it, especially if it saw light or the fan moving. Cats are very curious and I would not worry about him. As my vet said, they tend to get bored and move on.

What can I do to fight for custody?

Im 17 and my ex is 17 as well. We have a one year old daughter between us. She is my everything. Well today she went to stay the night with her dad, and he refused to bring her home. He is filing for full custody and keeping her there. I contacted the police, since hes the father theirs not much I can do. I live in PA, and my ex has been in and out of the psychiatric center for bipolar disorder and suicidal threats he also has MULTIPLE charges against him including Breaking and Entering, Assault, Grand Theft Auto, Harassment and Fighting. He has been sent away many times and he is currently on Probation. He is also into drugs. Or used to be. I have never had anything filed against me, and I have no criminal history. He is trying to take her because I fed her KFC, at a year old, and because she has a bruise on her face from where she fell down. However, his parents breed English Sheepdogs and one of them nipped at her once! I believe tots fall down and tots hurt themselves, so I dont think he has much of a point there. Also he said she was pulling on her ear and when he took her to the hospital she had a ear infection. Well, she wasn't doing that around me until very recently and when I noticed it I made her a apointment, However, he took her before I could take her to the hospital! The last reason is because I move around a lot, but that is because I am trying to get school figured out and find a good stable home for my baby. I live with wonderful people who treat my daughter wonderfully, because I am their neice and my daughter is their great neice.Please tell me what I can do. Im not a bad mom. I love my daughter to death.

How did you correct your young child when they started getting that teen-like attitude?

My son will be 4 in 2 months. He's kinda always had an attitude (probable got it from me), but I've been able to correct it easily by simply saying no or giving him a time out etc. By lately he really has MAJOR attitude and is SO rebellious and talking back. He learned (probably from another child at day care) how to spit at people and I give him a warning then when he does it again he gets a time out, but he will just keep doing other things like saying "don't talk to me! you're not my friend!" or sticking his tongue out or whatever. He seems like a 14 year old stuck in a 3 year olds body. LOL Looking for advice on how to nip it in the bud now before it gets out of hand.

How do u train your dog to be nice to strangers?

i have a Aussie and healer mix and im the only one he isnt scared of he doesnt like kids or even my wife that much he is scarred of everyone. when people try to pet him he growls and or barks at them. and he nipped my sister in law. i dont want to get rid of him but i need to be able to trust him. i need some help.

My dog growls and shows her teeth at me.?

Remember this dog isn't feeling well. You will need to correct her AND get her meds into those ears. When you apply the meds, be gentle with her. They (her ears) are painful--but you cannot allow her the "nipping" Get after her, but be gentle with her meds! Praise her after she does a good job with allowing you to apply the drops. Give her a treat and praise when she settles down and after you medicate her. As you already know, Beagles LOVE to eat--use it--- to lessen the struggles of medicating her! It is a simple matter of "bribery"!!!!

Treating fins? Tiger Barb?

I wouldn't suggest you putting her back in. If she was nipped before , she will get nipped again. Tiger barbs usually pick a " Weakest Link" which isn't always the smallest so she may have been chosen. I have had tiger barbs that got nipped so bad that they got stuck in the filter intake and died. Really sad stuff. Good luck.

What is the name of this song?

There's this song..i don't know the name of it...but in the video there are 3 separate people(teens) and they each get bullied theirs 1 girl and 2 boys and the girls ends up wanting to cut herself i think and one of the boys wants to hang himself and the other one wants to jump off the bridge and onto a highway. I think the one who wants to jump off the bridge is black(african american). And at the end of the video these people come up and..i think they say you can change or make it better..or something. It's been on mtv music video's in the morning. Please help me D: